50 shades....black and white

UGH.....So my husband has finished the 1st book in the 50 Shades of Grey series.  I feel that the underlying erotic romance of the book is eluding him.  He completely gets the "kinky fuckery", but he isn't understanding the actions/words leading up to this electric carnal need the Mr. Grey and Miss Steele have vibrating and crackling between them.  The way Mr. Grey devotes himself to her.  THe way she tenderly loves her man of few emotions.  (this is what gets us going guys!!!...the kinky fuckery is the cherry on top)

I have a big, strong, handsome, Dominant man of few emotions.  I wish sometimes that he had that electric carnal need of me - the way I feel for him.  And maybe he does, it just doesn't register for me as often as I like, but when it does....WOAH!  I can think of nothing and no one but him, our intimacy is enhanced, his every touch is enhanced 10x.  But when I am down or feel we are distant..that is when other thoughts run into my fantasy land. 

I am now also reading, The Nice Girls Guide to talking Dirty.  I think adding some more steam vocabulary to describe these fantasies of him and others will only help ramp up our sex drives!  And help clue him into what I think he is missing :)

To give him credit, he did say that it seemed like Mr. Grey loves Miss Steele, he just doesn't know how to show it....LOL

Oh my man!

She anticipated his arrival.........

......They had made plans to meet for lunch at 11:30.  He would pick her up.  She had texted him a few times to try and find out where they would eat, but he gave nothing away.  She continued to work, distracted by the clock in the lower right hand corner of her computer screen.  She was screaming on the inside for him to arrive already.   

Slowly the door opened, and there he was all shining blue eyes and smiles.  That deviant little quirk on his lips and her breath hitched in response.  As he sauntered to her desk, she saw fabric in his hands.  "Here, put this on" he said with a smile.  As she held up the fabric, it was a clingy shift dress with a pattern of black and shades of grey.  "Now?" she asked.  "Are you here alone today?" He responded.  She nodded her head, "then yes, Now...in there" as he pointed to the conference room across the hall.  She slowly stood and started for the conference room.  She was anxious, but she was alone.  No one was in the office, she wouldn't be caught, it was okay.  As she went to close the door, he grabbed it and walked in behind her. GULP, ok now she was nervous.  He stood so close, she could feel the heat radiate from his skin.  He slowly ran his fingers up her exposed arm and she shivered.  "I want to see you in that new dress" he said softly in her ear.  Her blood was boiling in an instant.  She slowly pulled the old dress she was wearing up over her head.  "mmmmm' escaped his lips as his hand ran over the smooth black satin of her panties.   She shivered again, her body heating too fast to regulate.  Suddenly his hand was in her hair, his lips so close to her ear "I would love to take you right here" and he bent her over the conference room table.  The table was so cold against her stomach, she could feel her nipples straining against the lace of her bra.  He parted her legs with his and slowly ran his other hand up her thigh.  She was hot, wet, ready and then SMACK a warm sting moved through her, waves of heat emulating from her smooth backside.  She hadn't realized she was holding her breath until that moment, as she let it all out and it came again, filling every pore with electricity.  "Be a good girl and give it to me" he growled in her ear and with the next shock wave she unraveled.  Kissing her shoulder, he helped her back to an upright position and helped her into the new dress.  "You look amazing, ready for lunch?" he grinned.  He grabbed her hand to walk her to the car.

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Real or fiction?

I don't claim to be a writer, I write because I love to :)

50 shades of F*kd up

Well, to be honest, I didn't think this series was too bad until the end of book 2.  I am seriously "rolling my eyes" and my "twitchy palm" would like to slap someone.   Now, I don't know where it leads and maybe book 3 will bring me back and not be as bad as I anticipate....but the cliff hanger makes me cringe in "cliche-land"

I don't want to give away any spoilers yet or make too many assumptions until I am done with the series....but I am really frustrated right now.  The characters are great....the author needs a thesaurus!!
And she could read a few more BDSM related books to get a few clues :)

Still very romantical!  My husband and I are having fun reading this together and adding some extra D/s fun to our own lives : )  I am excited to see his "rule" list.

Here's to keeping things caliente!

50 shades deeper....

So, I have begun book 2..."Fifty Shades Darker".... and my husband started the first book today.  I am so pleased that he would even try it.  He is interested to see what has my body humming in overdrive these days, and I love him more for taking interest : )

I am trying to understand for myself why this *Christian* character appeals to me.  It certainly isn't his past or his rich family.  His drive and ambition, his sense of self, his whole dimeanor is quite appealing.  His tastes, his sheer power....regardless of the money factor...though to be honest money is power, so that certainly helps his boistrous endeavers.   I wouldn't turn down a great home, great clothes, etc, etc, etc.   I really like how in control he is and that he outwardly shows it.

Miss Steele.....well, she is a good girl who knows nothing of her own sexuality, thinking "vanilla" is normal and the only way.....well doesn't she get a surprise :)   And at this point, she is enjoying it more (spoiler if you aren't to book 2).   I understand she isn't submissive really, she is a little sassy and enjoys giving just a bit of control over....that is her perogative. 

The submissive has the power, a Dominant is not a Dominant, if they do not have someone or something to dominate....right?!   Well, part true.   Respectfulness is a must regardless, working to always get what you want is not okay.....power exchange is to be a mutually beneficial arrangement !   Communication and Compromise (negotiations) are as big a part as any other relationship, and TRUST IS KEY!   Do not break that trust.

I guess my real irritation is with romance novels in general...always the handsome, rich, deeply troubled man and the sweet, innocent girl that helps him find the light......same story, different author every single time.   This really has prompted me to write and consider my own story lines.  Truly, life can be so much better than fiction....I could roll my own story out with some added fictional twists and make it so much better........

And why is the MALE never submissive.....come on now....equal rights!!!

So, I will continue into the shades of Grey, and I will let you know what my husband thinks :)

And I am going to start my writing again and maybe post some stuff here.