So, I have begun book 2..."Fifty Shades Darker".... and my husband started the first book today. I am so pleased that he would even try it. He is interested to see what has my body humming in overdrive these days, and I love him more for taking interest : )
I am trying to understand for myself why this *Christian* character appeals to me. It certainly isn't his past or his rich family. His drive and ambition, his sense of self, his whole dimeanor is quite appealing. His tastes, his sheer power....regardless of the money factor...though to be honest money is power, so that certainly helps his boistrous endeavers. I wouldn't turn down a great home, great clothes, etc, etc, etc. I really like how in control he is and that he outwardly shows it.
Miss Steele.....well, she is a good girl who knows nothing of her own sexuality, thinking "vanilla" is normal and the only way.....well doesn't she get a surprise :) And at this point, she is enjoying it more (spoiler if you aren't to book 2). I understand she isn't submissive really, she is a little sassy and enjoys giving just a bit of control over....that is her perogative.
The submissive has the power, a Dominant is not a Dominant, if they do not have someone or something to dominate....right?! Well, part true. Respectfulness is a must regardless, working to always get what you want is not okay.....power exchange is to be a mutually beneficial arrangement ! Communication and Compromise (negotiations) are as big a part as any other relationship, and TRUST IS KEY! Do not break that trust.
I guess my real irritation is with romance novels in general...always the handsome, rich, deeply troubled man and the sweet, innocent girl that helps him find the light......same story, different author every single time. This really has prompted me to write and consider my own story lines. Truly, life can be so much better than fiction....I could roll my own story out with some added fictional twists and make it so much better........
And why is the MALE never submissive.....come on now....equal rights!!!
So, I will continue into the shades of Grey, and I will let you know what my husband thinks :)
And I am going to start my writing again and maybe post some stuff here.
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