UGH.....So my husband has finished the 1st book in the 50 Shades of Grey series. I feel that the underlying erotic romance of the book is eluding him. He completely gets the "kinky fuckery", but he isn't understanding the actions/words leading up to this electric carnal need the Mr. Grey and Miss Steele have vibrating and crackling between them. The way Mr. Grey devotes himself to her. THe way she tenderly loves her man of few emotions. (this is what gets us going guys!!!...the kinky fuckery is the cherry on top)
I have a big, strong, handsome, Dominant man of few emotions. I wish sometimes that he had that electric carnal need of me - the way I feel for him. And maybe he does, it just doesn't register for me as often as I like, but when it does....WOAH! I can think of nothing and no one but him, our intimacy is enhanced, his every touch is enhanced 10x. But when I am down or feel we are distant..that is when other thoughts run into my fantasy land.
I am now also reading, The Nice Girls Guide to talking Dirty. I think adding some more steam vocabulary to describe these fantasies of him and others will only help ramp up our sex drives! And help clue him into what I think he is missing :)
To give him credit, he did say that it seemed like Mr. Grey loves Miss Steele, he just doesn't know how to show it....LOL
Oh my man!
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