2012 - Lesson 1

I am going to attemp to add some *muchness* to the BDSM group I help to lead.  I feel that as a social group and friends we are great, but we need to continue to grow in our dynamics and views....so since I am still exporing my submissive side, I am going to do all the assignments I am asking others to do from my own submissive standpoint.


Lesson 1:
*Start a BDSM journal or blog
*make a green, yellow, red activity list
*know your safeword


I have been journaling and blogging this stuff for years, but most of my time has been spent on what I like from a Domme perspective.  I am going to try to exclusively do these assignments from my sub side and see what I can learn.

So, I am going to start with *red*...that seems easiest

RED  (NO< NOT EVER<GO FUCK YOURSELF)
scat,vomit,anything seriously illegal, minors, serious edge play, golden showers anywhere above the waist, nipple clamps, anal stretching,animals, unitentional scaring, humiliation, corporal punishment,


YELLOW(NO<WELL MAYBE<OK I WILL TRY IT ONCE *OR* WOULD LOVE TO TRY)
bukkake, corner time, prolonged bondage, domestic servitude, role play, plugs, cutting, rape play, gang bangs, forced service, modification, furries, WAM, watersports, blood play, degredation(tasteful), enemas, branding,caging, corsets, fucking machines, medical play, interrigation play, suspension bondage, vaccum bed, waterboarding/bondage


GREEN(YES<LOVE IT<GIVE ME MORE)
lingerie/costumes, spankings, fisting, pussy slapping, breast slapping, face slapping (not too hard), rituals, bondage, caning, paddling, hair pulling, collars, wax play, violet wands, breath play/choking, biting, sensory deprivation/blindfolds, cock/ball worship, cunnilingus, discipline, masterbation, orgasm control, domesticity, fire cupping, knife play, Daddy/babygirl, anal sex, attention, ball gags, blow jobs,  chakra energy play, electro-play, gas masks, temperature play, size play, needle play, voyerism,


*** I know there has to be more, so as I think of things I will continue to list them


My safeword:
When not using the green, yellow, red  method.....is.........strawberry